Fix your attention span

In today's fast-paced world, many of us find ourselves grappling with a dwindling attention span. There are many more things demanding our attention and as a result attention spans are becoming shorter. It’s no wonder that almost everyone thinks they have ADHD. As a psychotherapist, I see client’s struggling to focus and battling with a  constant need for stimulation along with a growing sense of anxiety and dissatisfaction. But where exactly has our attention span gone and why is it disappearing?

The Attention Economy: The War for Your Focus

One of the most significant contributors to our shrinking attention spans is the modern attention economy. We live in a world where our focus is constantly being fought over by tech companies, advertisers and social media platforms. Every notification, ping, vibrate, pop-up, and alert is designed to grab your attention, even if only for a moment. These micro-interruptions fragment our concentration, making it difficult to focus on any one task for an extended period of time.

Psychologically, these constant interruptions prevent us from entering a state of deep focus, also known as "flow." Flow is a mental state where we're fully immersed and engaged in an activity, often leading to higher levels of productivity and satisfaction. However, in a world where we're constantly being pulled in different directions, achieving this state has become increasingly difficult.

The Dopamine Loop: Addiction to Novelty

Another factor at play is our brain's natural reward system. Each time we check our phones, scroll through social media or receive a notification, our brain releases a small amount of dopamine, the neurotransmitter associated with pleasure and reward. This creates a loop where we become addicted to the novelty of new information, constantly seeking out the next hit of dopamine.

Over time, this can lead to a reduced ability to focus on more extended, less immediately gratifying tasks. In the therapeutic setting, I often see clients who struggle to engage in activities that require sustained attention, such as reading a book, completing work projects, or even having long conversations. This can lead to a sense of frustration and decreased self-esteem, as they begin to feel that they are incapable of sustained focus.

The Impact of Stress and Anxiety

Chronic stress and anxiety play a significant role in diminishing our attention spans. When we're stressed, our brains go into survival mode, prioritizing immediate, short-term tasks over long-term focus. This is a natural response to perceived threats, but in today's world, where stress is often constant and pervasive, it can lead to a chronic inability to concentrate.

Additionally, anxiety often leads to rumination, where our thoughts become stuck in a loop, constantly cycling through worries and fears. This mental chatter makes it incredibly challenging to focus on anything else, as our brain is preoccupied with managing our anxieties.

The Role of Multitasking

Many of us believe that multitasking is an efficient way to get more done in less time. However, research has shown that multitasking is a myth. Our brains aren't actually capable of focusing on more than one task at a time. What we're really doing when we multitask is rapidly switching our attention from one task to another. This constant switching depletes our cognitive resources, leaving us feeling mentally exhausted and less capable of sustained focus.

In my practice, I've observed that clients who frequently multitask often experience higher levels of stress, burnout, and a sense of being overwhelmed. They also report a decreased ability to engage in deep, meaningful work, as their attention is constantly being fragmented.

Reclaiming Your Attention

So, what can be done to reclaim our attention spans in a world designed to distract us? As a psychotherapist, I often recommend the following strategies to my clients:

  1. Mindfulness Practice: Engaging in regular mindfulness practices, such as meditation, can help train your brain to focus on the present moment and reduce the constant pull of distractions.

  2. Digital Detox: Taking regular breaks from digital devices, especially social media, can help reset your brain and reduce the constant craving for novelty. Apps such as Freedom and AntiSocial help you manage your time on your devices.

  3. Single-Tasking: Practice focusing on one task at a time. Set a timer for 20-30 minutes and commit to working on just one thing during that time. Gradually increase the duration as your focus improves.

  4. Stress Management: Incorporate stress-reducing activities into your routine, such as exercise, deep breathing, or therapy. Reducing your overall stress levels can significantly improve your ability to concentrate.

  5. Create a Focus-Friendly Environment: Minimize distractions in your environment by turning off notifications, setting boundaries around your work time, and creating a quiet, organized space for focused work.

Our attention spans may be under siege in the modern world, but they are not lost. By understanding the factors that contribute to our decreasing ability to focus and by implementing strategies to counteract them, we can begin to reclaim our attention. In doing so, we can improve not only our productivity but also our overall sense of well-being and fulfilment. Remember, your attention is one of your most valuable resources—protect it wisely.

 

Nicola Strudley